My Study Abroad Experience:
Sweden
I assisted the Study Abroad trip to Sweden that took place in the summer of 2014 with Santa Fe Community college. During the trip to Sweden, the greatest skill I learned was to take initiative. The outcome of this travel consisted in the creation Independent study comparing the culture in the United States with that of Swedish culture.
This trip was lead by professor Doug Diekow of Santa Fe College, as well as professors Nigel Smith and Mangus Riseby of Tullangskollan in Orebro, Sweden who imparted knowledge of the Swedish culture throughout the travel. This travel expanded my wisdom and curiosity about the field of sociology in that I was able to have hands-on experience studying and recording the differences in interaction between two cultures. I decided to investigate the differences in adolescence sexuality between the Swedish and American cultures. However in order to carry out my study I had to learn how to adapt to the customs of the Swedish culture.
Swedish colleagues Mimmi Anstensen (Right), and Elsa Mertala (Left) engaging in a conversation about sexual education in the United States.
The Swedish culture is known for keeping personal occurrences to themselves, whereas in the American culture it is common to share most experiences with others. This created a difficult task since my project demanded a high level of openness and trust. The subject of my independent study was not common educational material, so I had to expand my communication abilities despite the cultural and linguistic barriers when conducting questions towards my fellow peers. In order for healthy interaction with my fellow Swedish classmates I firstly made myself available to answer and discuss any questions they may have about Americans, thus creating a gateway for reciprocity. This gateway was taken advantage off as the Swedish classmates began asking me questions regarding the American culture and it’s many views on Sexual relations, to which I answered clearly and vastly.
Part of studying a different culture includes the allowance of the other culture to study your own, and thus creating an interchanging path of communication. In other words I could not have had the opportunity of enculturation into the Swedish culture without offering rich knowledge of my culture in return. I was able to overcome my initial cultural problem by sparking the curiosity of my fellow colleagues into the interest of American sexuality patterns in adolescence, same of which led them to compare themselves with the American tendencies regarding sexual behavior. I achieved to create a safe space for interchanging information in a culture that was new and unknown to me which put my sociological though into perspective and made me aware of the great power that comes with the understanding of a culture.
Traveling with a group of individuals I had only previously encountered twice, and had yet to create a bond with, was a very delicate matter. Living with others, having to share personal space and moving schedules in order to accommodate everyone is extremely hard and something that I received a lot of experience with. There were a couple of individuals that had never left the country before and although the process became more emotional for them than for others, that had left the country before, we all came together to support the ones in need. Even though most students understood that since we were to spend two weeks together, the group as a whole had to learn to tolerate, learn and come to terms with our differences, some thought otherwise and did not integrate in the group or created conflict. One individual in particular was going through a lot of emotional conflicts, which caused her to create problems such as separating from the group, secluding herself from group activities and causing problems between classmates. This individual shared a room with me throughout the trip and that experiences gave me the ability to interact pleasantly and effectively with individuals in stressful and uncomfortable situations.
Professor Douglas Diekow, leader of the Trip (far left), Swedish Professor Nigel Smith (far back),Swedish colleagues Dennis Bergetoft (far right) and Rasmus Sköld (kneeling), and the group of American students from Santa Fe College, attending the study abroad trip.
The point of view of people with different cultural backgrounds is very anatomically different. In this trip there were three African American women, five American women, one American man, and myself, a Mexican woman, and with every different background came different points of view. The greatest difference I saw between myself and the rest of my American classmates were the ability of acceptance of something that is unknown or different. For example, at one point in this travel experience I was brought into a discussion as a tiebreaker. This discussion was between three of my classmates and the Swedish professor Nigel concerning the melody of the children song ‘the itsy bitsy spider’ and whether it was pronounced ‘itsy bitsy’ as said my classmates or ‘itsy witsy’ as argued Nigel. When it was my chance to voice my opinion I simply argued that the songs lyrics and intonations can vary cross-culturally and only because you learned a certain way with your cultural background doesn’t make it the correct way. However as I said this, my classmates scoffed in disagreement and returned to their main argument ignoring what I had said, and Nigel congratulated me for having the ability to detach myself from my cultural background and judge something without cultural relativism.
When finalizing the study abroad trip to Sweden I learned many things about myself; first including openness in tolerating cultural differences with no judgments. Second the ability to rely on the communication and people skills I have in order to successfully conduct my independent study, and finally I developed a strong sense of self-awareness. All of the qualities above are very necessary when one is involved in the fieldwork of sociology; they are the building block for studies such as ethnographies and societal comparisons. In the travel to Sweden I developed a feeling of confidence and comfort when meeting new people as well as a deeper understanding of cultural differences. It is known that every culture has different routines for a balanced everyday life, different religious beliefs, educational, political systems and social norms. These previous differences are only understood when one has the opportunity of being part of a Study Abroad travel, where while being guided through a new country, one is traveling through an eye opening experience into the infinite cultural variation there is in the world. After completing my project concerning adolescent sexuality differences between the United States and Sweden, it is clear to me that I want to help expand sexual education in the United States.